A Glimpse Inside Kandi Burruss’ Goodie Drawer
Kandi Burruss is a woman of many hats. In 2016, I interviewed the Grammy award-winning singer, songwriter and television star about her latest venture: a line of sex toys. The feature appeared in "Sexual Wellness," a print issue that was distributed at more than 250 college health centers across the country. The article was later promoted across Burruss' social media channels.
Kandi Burruss is no stranger to taking risks, and the risks this media mogul has taken have paid off in unexpected ways.
After entering the entertainment industry as a member of the girl group Xscape, Burruss went on to become a fan favorite on Bravo’s hit series “Real Housewives of Atlanta.” Since, she's cultivated a loyal following with an online weekly relationship show, “Kandi Koated Nights.” Her intimate chats with curious guests inspired Burruss to start her very own line of sex toys.
From nipple clamps to penis pumps, the sex toy industry annually contributes more than 15 billion dollars to the U.S. economy, according to data from Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality. Be that as it may, Burruss says that many of her fans have admitted to feeling squeamish when discussing their goodie drawer.
“Toys help keep things spicy,” she explains. “Even the best sex can be spicier. Don't be afraid to try something different.”
Once believed to be a gadget for lonesome, undersexed cat ladies, Burruss believes that vibrators and other sex toys can be "game changers" for women of any marital status.
“I hate when guys say, ‘She doesn't need that, she has me,'” she laughs. “For some reason, a lot of men act like their girlfriends or wives are trying to replace them if they want to try a toy. Toys aren't there to replace your partner.”
When shopping for a new sex toy, Kandi recommends examining the product’s speed, strength, and shape. Her favorite item from her own line?
“My two all-time favorites are the Kandi Kisses lipstick and our Kandi Pop. They are my favorites to be used on me while I'm being pleased orally.”
When starting a pleasure chest of your own, Burruss encourages fans to start small.
“If you're in a relationship, buy something that won't be intimidating to your partner. Something that would enhance the relationship — like vibrating panties — you could play a fun game with that one.”
If vibrating panties seem too bold, many adult retailers sell dirty playing cards or edible massage oils, both of which are inexpensive and easy to use. And if you're single, Burruss says, "the world is your oyster."
“If you’re single, get your life,” she says smiling. “Toys can help you get the sexual satisfaction you need in the moment, any moment."